THE JEWELRY COUNSELOR Q&A

I’m thrilled with my new 14 karat gold bracelet with gemstone accents, and look forward to the day I can pass it on as an heirloom. How do I keep it looking its best?

I love reading about jewelry, but am confused about the term karat, which I see sometimes spelled with a k and sometimes spelled with a c. What’s the difference?

I am a fan of the look of dramatic earrings, as seen on the red carpet, but I don’t want to call attention to the fullness of my neck and wide jaw. I love my full lips, however, and like to play them up for holiday parties with red lipstick. Any suggestions on the right earrings for me?

I notice that a lot of jewelry sold on the web is 18 karat gold, and I’ve even come across 22 karat gold. Is 18 karat or 22 karat gold better than 14 karat gold?

I’m getting married in the fall of 2004 and haven’t yet chosen my wedding gown, although I know I want a very traditional look. I’m thrilled with my engagement ring, and my fiancé and I have already selected our wedding bands. Can you give me some pointers on wearing jewelry on my wedding day?

 


Q: I’m thrilled with my new 14 karat gold bracelet with gemstone accents, and look forward to the day I can pass it on as an heirloom. How do I keep it looking its best?

A: A few simple steps will help keep your fine jewelry looking fine. Store your jewelry items in their original boxes or in soft chamois or cotton bags. Put your jewelry on only after you’ve applied perfume or hairspray, and never ever wear gold jewelry in a swimming pool or hot tub or while using bleach or any household cleanser that contains chlorine, since chlorine can cause surface pitting of the alloys in gold jewelry. Over time, hand and body lotion, makeup, perfume, hairspray and natural body oils will build up and form a residue on metal and gemstones. Cleaning your jewelry will keep it shiny and sparkling. Therefore, periodically soak your fine jewelry in a mild soap and water solution and very gently scrub it with a soft toothbrush, giving special attention to any crevices or design details and to the prongs or bevels that hold the gemstones. Rinse in cool, clear water (but never over an open drain!) and pat dry with a soft cloth. Once a year, take your fine jewelry to a professional jeweler for a steam cleaning. Treat your items of fine jewelry like the precious articles they are, and they will provide many, many years of delight to you and your heirs.

Q: I love reading about jewelry, but am confused about the term karat, which I see sometimes spelled with a k and sometimes spelled with a c. What’s the difference?

A: Carat with a c refers to the weight of a diamond or other gemstone. The term originates from the days when gemstones were weighed in Oriental souks or bazaars on a scale with gemstones on one side, carob beans on the other. Gemstones of identical size will vary by carat depending upon the stone because the density and therefore the weight of different gemstones varies—for example, rubies are denser and heavier than diamonds, so a 1 carat ruby will be smaller than a 1 carat diamond. Karat with a k is a measure not of weight, but of purity, when referring to the gold content in a piece of jewelry. Pure gold is 24 karats; 14 karat gold is 14 parts pure gold and 10 parts alloy, such as silver or copper, which adds strength to the piece and which also can be used to change the color, resulting in rose gold, green gold, or white gold.

Q: I am a fan of the look of dramatic earrings, as seen on the red carpet, but I don’t want to call attention to the fullness of my neck and wide jaw. I love my full lips, however, and like to play them up for holiday parties with red lipstick. Any suggestions on the right earrings for me?

A: Enjoy the sexy drama of grand earrings, but avoid pagodas and other styles that are broadest at the base, which will draw attention to the features you’d like to play down. Choose earrings that are longer than they are wide, but, for the most flattering effect, choose styles that end above your jawline. Soft curves in the design of your earrings will bring attention to the curves of your lips. To draw further attention to your luscious red lips, mirror your lipstick shade with rich, red gemstones such as ruby and garnet. You’ll be the belle of the ball! It’s up to you whether to be naughty or nice. . . .

Q: I notice that a lot of jewelry sold on the web is 18 karat gold, and I’ve even come across 22 karat gold. Is 18 karat or 22 karat gold better than 14 karat gold?

A: It’s a matter of personal preference. Except for pure gold, which is 24 karat, other karatage of gold reflects a mixture of pure gold plus an alloy such as silver or copper.
To be labeled 18 karat, the metal must be 18 parts pure gold and 6 parts alloy such as silver or copper, whereas 14 karat gold is 14 parts pure gold and 10 parts alloy. The alloys add strength and durability to the metal and may also affect its color. 18 karat gold is actually softer and slightly less durable than 14 karat gold. 18 karat is the standard in Europe; 14 karat, the standard in the U.S. is not only durable, but also budget friendly.

Gold of 22 karats or higher is generally considered too soft to wear on an everyday basis. Other parts of the world have long embraced the warmth and richness of higher karat gold, which is particularly appropriate for gold jewelry with an exotic feel and textural interest such as hammering or granulation. Because of their high gold content, 22 and 24 karat gold pieces are particularly expensive and because of their softness, will scratch easily.

In my opinion, from an aesthetic standpoint, and this is entirely a matter of personal choice, 14 karat yellow gold has a softer, prettier color than 18 karat yellow gold and is easier to wear whether one has warmer or cooler skin tones. For example, 14 karat yellow gold will be an easier color transition to make for someone used to wearing silver, platinum or white gold. In contrast, 18 karat yellow gold is warmer and more yellow in color. Higher karatage gold, such as the 22 karat gold one might purchase in Singapore or India, is even more yellow-orange in color and is therefore harder to wear for someone with cool skin undertones.

One reason you see quite a bit of 18 karat gold is that all the gold sold in Italy is required by law to be 18 karat, and much of the gold jewelry produced for sale in the United States is made in Italy. Apprecia Fine Jewelry is made to your specifications in the United States.

Q: I’m getting married in the fall of 2004 and haven’t yet chosen my wedding gown, although I know I want a very traditional look. I’m thrilled with my engagement ring, and my fiancé and I have already selected our wedding bands. Can you give me some pointers on wearing jewelry on my wedding day?

A: All best wishes to you and your fiancé! What an exciting time this is for you!

If you wear only one item of jewelry at your wedding in addition to your engagement and wedding rings, make it a pair of earrings in a flattering style that will bring attention up to your radiant face. The sparkle of diamonds or other gemstones and the soft glow of pearls are universally lovely choices that will draw the eye up to your face.

Choose a style of earrings that flatters your face shape and doesn’t overwhelm your dress. If you like chandelier style earrings, for example, you will probably want to keep the length of the drop to two inches or less unless you have a long graceful neck. Generally, earrings that cover your earlobes and do not extend beyond the line of your jaw will be flattering choices. Single pearls or diamond studs are always tasteful choices, but slightly larger earrings are often more flattering on a full-figured woman.

Whenever possible, select your wedding dress and headpiece first and then choose jewelry consistent in scale and design with the ornamentation on those pieces. However, if you plan to wear an heirloom item of jewelry that holds precious memories – for example, your grandmother’s sapphire brooch or your mother’s diamond necklace – make that item your priority and shop for a wedding dress with a neckline and style that will accommodate and not clash with the jewelry. Wear the jewelry as you try on various styles.

Similarly, if your fiancé plans to give you a wedding gift of jewelry that he would like you to wear at your wedding, then, if at all possible, plan your wedding dress around that jewelry. Even if you don’t receive the gift until the eve of your wedding, it will be helpful for you to know the length of a necklace or the dimensions of a brooch.

Keep in mind that most antique and vintage necklaces were designed to fit smaller necks—sometimes as small as 14 to 16 inches. It can be difficult to find an attractive extender that is a good match to the necklace you are trying to lengthen, so if you have short hair or plan to wear an up-do, you may need to find a creative way to incorporate an heirloom necklace into your wedding ensemble. For example, you may be able to incorporate the necklace creatively into your headpiece. Similarly, bracelets, brooches and even earrings can be pinned into your hair with dazzling effect. Wishing you a beautiful wedding and much joy!

 

 

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